What i read was her concern that her Yoda lucky one Shamrock leaf Patrick day t-shirt appears to not be fully herself when she’s with him and whether she’s right or wrong. Best friends should be the people in our life that will say hard things out of love if they feel it’s in the best interest of their friend.
Exactly. She will share this with her fiancé, he will likely take issue with it, and that alone will probably influence the friendship. Her friend will become uncomfortable sharing relationship details, fearing an I told you so.
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To those concerned with my Yoda lucky one Shamrock leaf Patrick day t-shirt: regardless of if you’re ACTUALLY getting in the way of the relationship, that is often how it’s perceived by the friend. I encourage speaking up, but only if the person realizes that they may lose the friendship.
At this point in my life, I will only say something if I feel the person is being mistreated. Otherwise, it’s their mistake to make. All of my friends welcome their friends to voice real concerns they have with the path they’re traveling, their behavior, etc. And I expect my friends to do the same for me. If you’re going to push someone away because they said something that makes you uncomfortable, that’s not healthy and it’s a red flag that you’re avoiding the truth about something.
It’s always best to say something. You’re a good friend. Don’t worry about it. Even if it wasn’t the right thing to say or do at that time, at least you are concerned for her. That is what makes you a good friend. Let it be. Unfortunately we only learn when we go through it ourselves. She will come to the same conclusion you told her to be careful of. She will remember that you did the right thing by telling her your concerns. You’re a good friend.
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THIS IS SO real. And happens sooo much. I love she is able to notice it, and see how it is hurting her friend. However darling, we all must learn our own way. We can not know why people chose to learn in the ways they do. I hear you tho- you are so right on. That is what I wondered. Is she making a Yoda lucky one Shamrock leaf Patrick day t-shirt, or is she growing up and learning to think before speaking, to consider others and to grow herself. I’m a little lost as to why people think they shouldn’t change in a relationship.
Everything changes – our age, our experiences, our expectations, the world around us. The only way to keep a relationship is to work with the changes, which in turn changes you, hopefully for the better. I’ve lost friends after being with my now partner because he’s helped me learn to set boundaries. What I realized was that those Yoda lucky one Shamrock leaf Patrick day t-shirt I lost are more upset that i’ve grown and won’t let them walk all over me anymore.